Today I'll be sharing with you 10 most common red flag at the beginning of a relationship that people ignore.
These include:
1. The Love Bombing Effect: Rapid gifts, constant compliments and instant show off of effort. It is compleling but be careful because it can be a manipulation in someone’s own pursuit.
2. The type of girl who puts this transparent quote in her forehead: “If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” If you see it based on her actions, let herself grow.
3. The drama queen who sweats the small stuff: She found out you liked your bestfriend’s profile picture and if she can’t recognize that her hormones are fluctuating, she’ll start to enumerate the names of your exes.
4. The feeling of being controlled: “I don’t like your friends, family, pet, clothes, job, video games or whatever.” “You should do this! You must do that!” If you feel like you’re being strangled and suffocated because she has trust issues, then it’s time to pack your suitcase.
5. Jealousy and insecurity: They’ll push you away because “I’m not good enough.” and “You deserve someone better.”
6: Lack of respect that leads to misunderstanding because “You have more time in your work and you don’t have time to go with me to buy Kylie’s new released lipstick.” Miscommunication because “I want him to figure out that I’m in a bad mood so I won’t talk to him.”
7. “You’re a man so you should do everything for me.” Girl, lemme tell ya that one of the strong foundation in relationships is teamwork built with time, trust and loyalty.
8. Clingy: “I chatted you at 10:45am, you replied at 10:47am. What are you doing at 10:46am?”
9. If you figure out your partner lies, especially at some point in the beginning of your relationship, you should keep off, because this can lead to destruction of the relationship sooner or later.
10. Lastly: if he or she doesn’t have plan ABC till Z for your future, or his/hers, then leave. As the quote says, he who fail to plan has planned to fail.
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